A little paranoid right now, not going to lie.
I was supposed to hang out a fair bit with my - how do the kids say?- “bestie” over the break but have only hung out once. I texted her yesterday asking to hangout and she said she wasn’t feeling well. Then, after I asked if she was okay, she told me she just wanted to go back to Montreal (where she goes to school) and when I asked why/what was wrong, she told me to forget about it.
She hasn’t responded to any messages since and now I’m a little worried about her.
Guy-girl friendships are tricky, especially for a worrier like me. I always thought this sort of stereotypical girl behaviour was reserved for significant others!
With friends I would be annoying as shit until they opened up and talked about their feelings, even going as far as walking across town to their house to do a pop-in. I learned quickly that she’s different then my other friends and gets a little upset when I get annoying…
So, could someone lend some advice?